1 John 4:8-10 MSG The person who refuses to love doesn’t know the first thing about God, because God is love—so you can’t know Him if you don’t love. This is how God showed His love for us: God sent His only Son into the world so we might live through Him. This is the kind of love we are talking about—not that we once upon a time loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as a sacrifice to clear away our sins and the damage they’ve done to our relationship with God.
1 Corinthians 13:1-8a PhillipsIf I speak with the eloquence of men and of angels, but have no love, I become no more than blaring brass or crashing cymbal. If I have the gift of foretelling the future and hold in my mind not only all human knowledge but the very secrets of God, and if I also have that absolute faith which can move mountains, but have no love, I amount to nothing at all. If I dispose of all that I possess, yes, even if I give my own body to be burned, but have no love, I achieve precisely nothing.
4 This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience—it looks for a way of being constructive. It is not possessive: it is neither anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own importance.
5-6 Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage. It is not touchy. It does not keep account of evil or gloat over the wickedness of other people. On the contrary, it is glad with all good men when truth prevails.
7-8a Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen.
Observation
Both of these passages are familiar. The first one is part of a lesson in Sunday School at the earliest ages, so that our children know “the first thing about God … God is love” and “He loved us and sent His Son as a sacrifice to clear away our sins and the damage they’ve done to our relationship with God.” This is all grace and mercy toward us and, in our gratitude, we set ourselves to increase in the knowledge of God. The Pharisees were diligent in this pursuit. So, how did they miss recognizing the God incarnate in Jesus? The second passage speaks to what they were missing. They had substituted knowledge and achievement for the grace and mercy of God’s love.
I think today we still forget to emphasize John’s stated condition to knowing God – “so you can’t know Him if you don’t love.” This love of which he speaks goes far beyond loving those who love us. “Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen.” If we want to be like Christ, this love includes our willingness to sacrificially suffer, give up our rights, and be humbled for the sake of the guilty, the angry, the godless, our enemies, hoping that the love extended will bring repentance and a relationship with God. This is God’s kind of love in action.
Impact on Me
At every wedding where 1 Corinthians 13 is read, I am struck by the amount of self-control, humility and sacrifice this kind of love demands. Like the Pharisees, I can get swept up into chasing the church culture standards of achievements that prove my spirituality. In doing so, I forget the first thing about God, the glue for our relationship, is love God and love others as He does. All the gifts and talents I possess, all the knowledge I gain, all the sacrifices I make, all the appearances of spirituality that are not based in and flow from the God kind of love “achieve precisely nothing.”
This does not mean that I stop using my gifts and talents, or seek knowledge about God, or make sacrifices, or seek to increase my foundation in spirituality, but it does mean that I need to make sure always that His love is my motive and I let my rewards come from Him, not others. This is where the self-control, humility, and sacrifice come in.
Prayer
God, my Father, Savior, Teacher and Power to be what You have called me to be, I want to never forget that Your kind of love is my only motive, the foundation of and reason for all I do, have and speak. May I live out the love of 1 Corinthians 13. May my heart be moved with the compassion of Jesus that held Him on the Cross when I am confronted by challenges to be Your love to my enemies. Never, never, never let me forget that it is Your kind of love that never fails. Make it so in Jesus’ name.
1 Cor 13:4-8a NIV “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8a Love never fails.”