Matthew 1:18-25 MSG The birth of Jesus took place like this. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. Before they enjoyed their wedding night, Joseph discovered she was pregnant. (It was by the Holy Spirit, but he didn’t know that.) Joseph, chagrined but noble, determined to take care of things quietly so Mary would not be disgraced.
20-23 While he was trying to figure a way out, he had a dream. God’s angel spoke in the dream: “Joseph, son of David, don’t hesitate to get married. Mary’s pregnancy is Spirit-conceived. God’s Holy Spirit has made her pregnant. She will bring a son to birth, and when she does, you, Joseph, will name him Jesus—‘God saves’—because he will save his people from their sins.” This would bring the prophet’s embryonic revelation to full term:
Watch for this—a virgin will get pregnant and bear a son;
They will name him Immanuel (Hebrew for “God is with us”).
24-25 Then Joseph woke up. He did exactly what God’s angel commanded in the dream: He married Mary. But he did not consummate the marriage until she had the baby. He named the baby Jesus.
Observation
Both Mary and Joseph faced difficult decisions in accepting God’s mission to birth Messiah. Mary considered the consequences of saying, “Yes.” How would her family react? None of them had seen or heard the angel. Would Joseph refuse to marry her and make a public announcement of the dissolution of the betrothal? Would she be ostracized, a social outcast, in her community? Would she have to raise her son alone? Would he be branded as a bastard and have the stigma follow him all his life?
What would Joseph do? He knew he was not the father of this baby, so he would assume she had committed adultery with someone else. If he did not annul his contract with Mary, everyone would assume he was the one who had committed adultery with her. He must have cared for her and her family to want to “take care of things quietly so Mary would not be disgraced.” After the angel appeared in the dream, he decided to bear whatever shame would come and follow the pathway God had destined for them both.
And why would Father God choose to have Messiah born carrying such a social burden? Could it have been to make it easier for sinners to relate to Jesus?
Impact on Me
How many times have I read the Christmas story without considering the sacrifice made by Mary, Joseph and Jesus? They chose to submit to God regardless of the circumstances, to bear the burden of the consequences of their choices because it served God’s will and purpose, to suffer shame and rejection of their society in order to meet God’s needs rather than their own. Thank goodness Mary and Joseph were wise and courageous enough to accept whatever consequences came with being the human parents of the Messiah, the promised one who would “save his people from their sins.”
So, am I that wise and courageous? Would I make choices that I knew would bring shame, rejection and disgrace on me or my family? Would I allow everyone to misunderstand the situation for the sake of fulfilling God’s will and purpose? I can look back on my life and see times where I said, “Yes!” and other times where I failed to do so. The good news is that that baby Jesus, the Messiah, walked out His “Yes” from manger to the Cross so that I can receive grace for the times I failed. This Jesus Who chose to lose His reputation with His society so that I could find peace and life in heavenly society.
Prayer
Lord God, Father, All-Wise God, I don’t understand the pathways of faith You chose for Messiah, His earthly parents, His disciples, and all of us who follow Him now. I do know that my “Yes” does not always lead me in easy and comfortable pathways. More often than not, my “Yes” leads me into times of internal and external struggle, frustration and even suffering. BUT, I trust You knowing that, if I accept, You will make the result worth the cost I pay. I believe that I never go alone when I choose to continue on the pathway of Your “Yes” regardless of the cost to me. Give me courage to continue in Your “Yes” even when it challenges or terrifies me. You are faithful to stay with me through it all. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Make it so.