Matthew 5:43-48 MSG 43-47 “You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the supple moves of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that. 48 “In a word, what I’m saying is, Grow up. You’re kingdom subjects. Now live like it. Live out your God-created identity. Live generously and graciously toward others, the way God lives toward you.”
Luke 23:34 MSG Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them; they don’t know what they’re doing.”
Observation
The Word of God was given to us not for what it would mean to us (trying to rationalize through human experience), but, rather, for what it would mean for us in revealing the Lord’s perspective. In other words, His words are not to be interpreted from my “humanly possible” perspective, but, rather, to give me insight into His “nothing is impossible” one. These passages are a perfect example of how God’s perspective challenges me to be less human and more supernatural – trusting in Him and allowing the Holy Spirit freedom to make me more like Jesus so I function as He intends in the Body of Christ.
So, returning love to those who hurt, attack, despise and use you (or someone you care for) seems impossible from a human standpoint. It is incredibly difficult to look past the face and actions of an enemy to see the chains that bind him or her. But Jesus did just that on the Cross. “Father, forgive them; they don’t know what they’re doing.” Jesus said this about the man who drive the nails in His hands, the man who held the whip, Pontius Pilate, the religious leaders, those who yelled, “Crucify!” and all of us who were yet to come.
Loving our enemies does not mean submitting to physical abuse or enabling them to avoid the consequences of their actions. “When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the supple moves of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves.” Loving them requires us to forgive them and pray for their healing and deliverance – a nearly impossible feat without choosing to allow the Holy Spirit to reveal God’s perspective in our most human moments and choosing in His strength to journey in that direction. The road may seem long, steep and treacherous, but it is worth the taking.
Impact on Me
I confess that there are people that I find hard to forgive because of the wounds they have created by word and deed. I have rationalized wishing harm on someone who hurt me (or others for whom I care dearly) and clothed it in my mind as justice. I am sure there are people that feel the same toward me. We are none of us without fault. But, if we want to be more like Jesus, then we need to see others through God’s perspective. “He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. “
So, I want to learn to look past the visible or invisible wound to me and attempt to see the soul, gaining compassion for those so wounded that they would choose to attack or harm another – verbally or physically. I want to be to others as Jesus has been to me – so gracious and generous when I did not deserve it. “Grow up. You’re kingdom subjects. Now live like it. Live out your God-created identity. Live generously and graciously toward others, the way God lives toward you.” I have not yet arrived at this place, but I sincerely want to go there.
Prayer
Good, gracious, generous, loving God, how easily I forget the undeserved grace I received when I am wounded by another. How difficult it is for me to forgive those who make themselves my enemy and spitefully use me, but You say this forgiving, this grace and mercy, makes me more like Jesus, more effective in His Body, more beneficial to Your kingdom. So, I ask You to search me and find those ungracious and stingy thoughts, those wounds that need to be healed, so I may allow the Holy Spirit to do His work in me so I can fulfill Your will and purpose in my life. Make it so, in Jeus’ name.